Hi Martin, thi is how I machined mine.
First I roughed out the flanges of all four wheels, using a mandrel turned in place in the 3-jaw chuck.
Then I sharpened up an HSS tool, like a standard knife tool but with a significant nose radius.
I turned the top slide to give the 3-degree taper of the cone.
I then fitted the tool so the cutting (left) side of the tool was at the flange angle.
For each wheel in turn I then thinned down the flange so it was the right thickness at the top of the flange (before rounding off) The nose of the tool then created the root radius, using the cross slide to make sure the depth was consistent even though the cone was not yet turned. I then used the topslide to create the cone angle until it blended in nicely at the root, while keeping an eye on the outside diameter, just in case.
This may sound hit and miss, but using a saddle stop and always starting with the top slide in the same place made sure the initial turning of the flange was OK.
I didn't suffer chatter on the flanges, but the wheels are only 2 1/4" diameter and teh depth of the flange is quite small in 3 1/2G.
Neil