Where does the 140 Amps quoted come from? Is it the winch consumption? or is it the fuse box rating? Do you not want the interior light to work when the engine is not running? I can understand the fan not being required when engine 'off' but I would have thought the interior light would ideally be switchable at all times.
I also do not understand exactly what you mean by a voltage sensitive relay! Do you really mean the AWL relay (Alternator Warning Light)? Or do you mean a dual charging relay as used with caravans, which only charges the accessory battery when the main vehicle battery is consuming less than 13.2V?
A brief sketch of the circuits to be employed would be helpful as well.
Martin