Slight update, it sprang to mind that i already have a VFD running my lathe, it's only 2.2 kw so wouldn't be any good for real work as the mill motor is 2.2 kw, but i figured it should run the spindle quite easily with no load.
Wired it up and ran the mill, to discover to my embarrassment that the back gear was engaged (engagement lever works opposite way to what i thought) hence the rattle when running from my undersized rotary converter yesterday.
Knocked her out of back gear and the head is virtually silent throughout the high range……result I thought it was weird, as i heard the mill running on true 3 phase when i bought it, and never noticed any undue noise, although the machine was outside at the time.
I'm now shopping for a 4kw inverter to run the spindle motor, and a titchy one to power the 1/3hp table feed motor.
Thanks for all the replies, much appreciated.