I used the Model Engineeer Handbook for the O rings on my flash steamer and found Tubal Cain sizes work well.
As now on with a large flash steamer have found on the web plenty of O ring dimension articles to help my project.
On the model doing a water pressure test it was about four thousand pounds on my generator a pump 0.25" silicone O ring extruded maybe not designed for that pressure or too mch pump piston clearance.
You try to learn through cock ups not to do it again.