Ha! Robin, it's a far day from taking your can to the local hardware shop or the weekly van delivery of 'Aladdin'. I find a garden centre the best source for it these days.
As a matter of interest what kind of tap wrench are you using – If its the flat bar type and you are doing it free hand it's very easy to wring. Couple that with the material and it can be a disaster waiting to happen. Not knowing your circumstances but if you can support the tap in a drill chuck to keep it aligned it makes a big difference. I also have a small knurled disc about 18 mm dia. with a grub screw though the side for drive to use on small taps – the control is far better.
A very good, but relatively expensive, tapping fluid for ali is that sold by TapMatic – this also brilliant on brass, making a dullish drill bit cut like new whilst the fluid is in contact. A litre was well over twice the price for a litre as opposed to 4 litres of paraffin.
Disagreeing with you Neil, is not something I would have imagined doing but your use of castor oil is somewhat surprising mainly from the clean up point of view. I've never tried it on ali for tapping so don't doubt your comment that it will work but it's the most sticky gummy substance to deal with – just look how a model diesel will gum up not to mention it's ability to transfer to everything you touch to leave the same residue.
No, I've used both for long enough to know which one to use – your comment " you try to avoid Kerosene as much as you can" is also surprising – can you say why?
I use it (kerosene) all the time in the workshop for cleaning and lubricating – it's easy to clean off too. A mixture of 90% and 10% oil makes for a good lapping lube, a wipe over the lathe or mill after cleaning down etc etc. It doesn't dry hard like castor eventually does – that usual requires a solvent or heat to resolve.
Each to his own of course but my money's on the Paraffin
Best – Tug