Ok, well first off I think the sail you are talking about is actually a jib, which is a triangular sail that sets on a stay. I made my own roller furling setup for the jib on a Sunburst, which is a New Zealand dinghy class that carries main, jib, and spinnaker.
The stay that the jib sets on is normally the forestay for the mast. When the breeze gets up, you need to flatten the mainsail and the jib by various means, and that means that you can end up with a fair tension in the stay. It is desirable for the forestay to stay quite straight. In the Sunburst, which is only 11 foot six inches long, the forestay tension can easily reach a ton or so. The bearings have to be able to turn freely under that load. I looked at the commercial offerings and felt they were both too expensive, and not adequate for that sort of load. So I made my own. I don't think plain bearings of any sort are really what is needed here, at least for the thrust load. I made up a pair of units machined from aluminium stock that housed a ball thrust bearing. The lower one was larger and included a reel for the furling line. The furling line doesn't have to be a continuous loop, you can unfurl by pulling on a sheet and use the furling line just to furl. However, it does need to be controlled so that it winds nicely onto the drum. The jib on the Sunburst is small enough that it is never used reefed, but on a larger boat you could cleat the furling line and just use part of the sail.
The bearings were standard off the shelf items, protected by a standard lip type oil seal. You can improve these seals for salt water use by taking out the tensioning spring and replacing it with a 1/16" cord O ring of the right length. That way it will not rust. I relied on this and the bearings being packed with grease and never had any trouble. The boat is still in use by relatives after over twenty years so it all worked out fine. As far as I can recall I didn't provide any bearing other than the thrust bearing. The oil seal and the hole in the end locate the moving part enough, as any radial loads are negligible compared to the end load.
If you are dealing with a spinnaker, then what you need is a self launching spinnaker pole. The windward corner of the spinnaker is poled out by a pole that seats against the mast. When you gybe, the pole needs to be retrieved, moved across the bow to the new upwind side, and relaunched. There are a number of ways of doing this, some of them quite dangerous for the crew member involved, who is working on a small wet space…and boats that are running downwind do not need extra weight up front. Especially a small dinghy that is planing. (Guess how I know this!)
So what I came up with is a self launching pole. The spinnaker pole has to be large enough in diameter to accommodate two spinnaker lines and a bungee rubber. Ideally some light plastic tube would be fitted internally to separate them as otherwise they may be inclined to bind on each other. A single sheeve is fitted into the boom about the length of the pole back from the gooseneck. A length of bungee rubber runs from the forward end of the spinnaker pole, out the aft end, into the sheeve and forward up the length of the boom inside. When the pole is not in use this pulls it back to lie alongside the boom. There is also a line from each corner of the spinnaker to the forward end of the pole. These proceed through the pole, out the aft end, and forward to a double sheeve on the mast at the point where the pole would normally seat. From there they proceed aft to some convenient point where they can be cleated. Each lower corner of the spinnaker also has the conventional sheet, leading to a cleating point aft.
OK, so the pole when not in use lies on one side of the sail next to the boom. When it is desired to launch the spinnaker, the line that attaches to what is going to be the upwind corner of the spinnaker is pulled. As the tension comes on, the corner of the sail will be pulled up against the forward end of the pole, and then the pole will be pulled out against the tension of the bungee, until the aft end of the pole is up against the mast. The spinnaker can then be launched from a chute by pulling on the halyard. In order to gybe, the pole outhaul is released, the pole retracts to beside the boom, and after the boom has gone across, the other outhaul can be pulled in to set the pole on the other side. All sounds a bit complex, but this setup allowed me to operate the spinnaker single handed in heavy conditions, eg enough to make the dinghy plane. Actually it was more awkward in light conditions, when the friction in the various runs tended to make things hang up. But then in light conditions you can get away with going forward to sort things out.
John