Hi Bob, Either of the fluxes will be OK but the Bakers fluid is not recommended for non ferrous metal so I would go for the resin flux [Fluxite] you could also use the type of flux available for plumbing, these are very mildly acidic but clean non ferrous material extremely well. Make sure you wash well with water when finished.
The solder — use tin, same as available from plumbers merchants, tin flows to a very thin layer and is stronger than lead / tin alloys. We use this for fixing ribs on shotgun barrels and fitting new tubes into the breech, used with a resin flux and it is of course subjected to stress when the gun is fired. Tin both your components and strap together with wire then heat with a gas torch and feed in some extra solder when you see the tinning go "wet".
John.
PS Bakers fluid = killed sprites = hydrochloric acid + zinc.