Hi, as far as refilling anything, you should follow the manufacturers instructions. However, in most cases, it will mean inverting the gas can, if you use it in the upright position, you will be injecting the Butane into your torch in its liquid form, and as it will expand inside your torch when it turns to gas, it may mean you are over pressurising it.
As others have said, you don’t normally need an adapter for these torches in most cases, but you do need the can nozzle to sit square on the little filling pin, and you normally only need a brief application.
Regards Nick.