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15 July 2024 at 23:48 Hopper Said:
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With similar politeness, in line with calling a toilet a bathroom…
What we call the place we go excrete is almost always a euphemism. Toilet was originally the act of dressing and grooming, with no bladders, bowels or menses involved. Then the Victorians invented a porcelain apparatus and needed a name – now we call this object a toilet, often located in the room devoted to washing and grooming.
When being ‘taken short’ in someone else’s house makes it urgent to ask where to go for relief, good manners (a close relative of woke and political correctness), has required a euphemism for millennia in all cultures. Loo, Ladies and Gents, Powder Room, Rest Room, Little Boys Room, lavatory, WC, Throne, Bathroom, Cloakroom, Convenience etc. We also have options to suit less formal occasions, when ‘out with the lads’: bog, crapper, head. Plus many phrases that describe the act, more or less directly: going to ‘see a man about a dog’, ‘turn my bike round’, or ‘point Percy at the porcelain.’
Why bother with manners and tact? Respecting the concerns and interests of others is a good way of avoiding conflict, because it proves one understands the rules, and wasn’t badly brought up or poorly educated. People who understand are more likely to be in control of their emotions. In a pub, who should we most wary of? The polite well-dressed man sipping a liqueur in the corner, or the yahoo aggressively gobbing off ignorant opinions in yer face? Though the liqueur drinker might be a serial killer, odds on it’s the yahoo who will kick-off.
Lest anyone think my defence of woke is uncritical, certainly not. Woke is as flawed as any other human endeavour, a mix of good and bad. It isn’t particularly organised, so anyone can suggest new ideas, not all good! Context matters too: quite a lot of woke makes more sense in the USA due to their very different history. I support woke’s desire to address injustice, but not the conclusions of the wilder element.
Though woke might challenge a few of our assumptions, Engineering has nothing to fear from it.
Dave