Right. So, the first thing I did was to take Mr JOhnstone's advice and re-think my thread size.
I've got some 10mm x 1mm taps and dies and made a 10×1 nut and bolt as standards.
The lathed bolt was OK and fitted in the tapped nut nicely.
The lathed nut was a bit wobbly so I'd clearly over cut, but I thought it worth having a go with the part I'm trying to make (piston gland).
The nut for the piston gland (external thread) went OK despite having to turn the thread up to a corner.
The gland itself was more daunting as I had to thread it up to an internal corner.
The idea was to cut it up to the rough depth and then try the nut, cut a bit more, try the nut and so on. Not terribly professional, but then I'm not.
I found I was tapping much deeper than I should and the nut still wouldn't go on. I also started to loose track of the depth and at one point the half nut slipped and I had to find my way back into the thread. I also noticed that the QCTP had slipped a bit so that wasn't helping.
In the end I tried a little harder to thread the nut on and – hallelujah! went on. Wobbled a bit, mind you but I thought I was there.
Unfortunately, when I tidied the internal thread up with a light touch from a scraper the nut stopped screwing in and started pushing in.
I think I have to scrap that part and start again. But not tonight – there's only so much I can take!
The lesson seems to be to be a bit firmer about trying the nut – and I might make a non-hardened thread cleaner – a sort of poor man's tap as my try nut. The idea is that it will both try the fit and clean up the threads a bit. Sort of tap profile, but in mild. Or if I go mad I might have a go at making a tap. I have some 20mm silver steel I could cut down. We'll see – all these digressions take away from actually building things!
Thanks for all the help so far. I'll post again when I've had time to try again.
Iain