So i ask, is it wrong to start from from the get go and build over several years using all and sundry on here to assist with constant questions?
Welcome to the forum but the answer to that one is maybe!
When a beginner over-reaches himself and gets into difficulties because basic skills haven't been learnt yet, there's a risk answers will whizz clean over his head. Can lead to a breakdown of communication and mutual frustration: beginner is knocked back, maybe made to feel stupid, while the 'experts' soon get fed up having their perfectly good answers misunderstood! Could end badly despite good will on both sides. Probably not a good idea for a complete beginner to take on a difficult project and hope the Forum will put everything right in a kind of extended tutorial.
Personally, I learn best by moving forward step by step, tackling moderate challenges until I've 'got it', gradually building up. Depends on what sort of model engineering is pursued but potentially there's a lot to learn about materials, tools, design, drawings, planning, workshop technique and perhaps maths. I made progress by mixing what I really wanted to make (experimental), with a range of modelling projects – simple workshop accessories, moving up to simple engines. Not because I'm particularly interested in engines, but because building a few stretched and developed my skills. Forum helped me enormously, because my beginner questions were asked at the right level, and that's been maintained as my skills developed.
Others learn best by jumping in at the deep-end. Motivation is important, and making progress by building one's heart's desire could be far more productive than my staged approach. Fine, but don't expect sympathy if caught in a storm half-way up Mont Blanc wearing shorts and a plastic mac due to not studying mountaineering and the weather forecast.
The forum is excellent at answering questions and keen to help so why not give it a try. Just try to strike the right balance.
Cheers,
Dave