No wonder we poor beginners get confused by this hobby sometimes. It's a good job I didn't read this thread before ignorantly buying ER32 and finding they work fine for me.
My simple take is that the different collet designs, like all tools, are some sort of compromise. Which tool is 'best' depends on the job in hand, not on pure theory, heritage or opinion. A collet that does well in one circumstance will perform less well in others.
ER provides a wide clamping range and good grip provided the rod fits fully into the clamp. This is as you would expect because tt was designed to hold tools. ER is not good at holding short items that don't fit the clamp properly, but otherwise it has good 'general purpose' characteristics.
In comparison, R8 has a lower clamping force, but that force is applied most strongly at the front. This is useful, making R8 better than ER for gripping short work. If the work happens to be long enough to fit a ER collet fully, then ER is back in the game.
Collets have design goals other than grip, for example R8 was designed for rapid tool changing. Whether a characteristic like tool change speed is important or not depends on the job. The wide range of possible optimisations is why there are so many different types of collet available.
My advice to a beginner setting up an average home workshop is that you won't go far wrong with ER collets. Once you've had some 'hands-on' and know better what you're about, it becomes much easier to make an informed choice.
I'm surprised that a discussion about collets should become controversial. Fortunately there's no danger of the argument escalating into a rencontre though. The gentlemen could never agree on the best sort of duelling pistol.
I'm all for robust debate and there are some real gems in this thread. I just wonder if the forum needs a tea-room style section for free speech. Like the service in the Monty Python "I've come for an argument" sketch. ('No you haven't…)
If I'm talking rubbish again please say so. I'm here to learn as well as be entertained.
Cheers,
Dave