I think some of the science of flat stones has got lost.
Not only do the stones have to be flat, but also blunt so they DON'T cut the bed being stoned. They only cut the projections, elsewhere there isn't enough down pressure to get the stone to cut the wider area of the bed.
So the stone floats on a film of oil except where there is a raised ding. This creates a local pressure spot enough to get the stone to cut.
The theory is that a truly flat bed won't suffer local abrasion from having the stone rubbed over it as the stone doesn't contact the surface.
The function of using a grinder to run over the flat surface of a new stones is to knock the aggression out of the abrasion. It doesn't need a diamond wheel to do this, a stone wheel will do the job just fine. A new oilstone as supplied is pretty much flat from new though to get the "floating" effect it needs a dust over to even up the thickness of the oil film against the machine bed being stoned.
I think I recall that Don Bailey of Suburban Tools covers this in detail in one (or more) of his YouTube presentations. Ditto Adam Booth (Abom79).
Rgds Simon