Tim,
this will be prob to late for you but…….when apprenticed a v/large Ford main dealer's 40 odd years ago we used to repair/overhaul the diff's from the complete range of model's……I cannot remember the numbers/preload values but in all cases we used (gen Ford part) a thin walled tube as a spacer between the bearings…….the nut a 1" ish all metal locking nut was used to set the preload….the tube was crushed/deformed and everything held in place by the Self locking nut… The new oil seal was already fitted, Fords allowed for the oil seal drag in the spec's…..
There was no specific torque value on the nut although over time we worked it out to get the lower pre-load limit to speed up the job, the preload was measured using a long bar with a measured scale and a weight locked to the bar with a thumb screw bolt ….giving lbs ft—hence drag/pre load……..
this bar was bolted to the front flange of the diff with a plate, a hole in the plates centre was big enough for the socket and an additional couple of pins was used so as to attach a locking bar making it possible to tighten the locknut without taking the weight bar off…..turning the whole pinion shaft assy (weight bar as well) a few times (after tightening the nut, EVERYTIME) to settle the bearings in…..
Normally this took about 5-10mins to set up with practice…….remember if u got the preload too tight it was nec to strip it out and replace the tube………then of course u need to start the whole process again…….
REMEMBERING, at no time can you loosen the nut……if you need to loosen the nut the crush tube will need to be changed………sounds difficult but it was a very easy job to do……
hope this may help…..this idea would/should be quite adaptable and Ford used this method on millions of cars….Clogs