My thought on the mounting point for the toolholder is that, once it's rigidly fixed to the topslide, the actual point of attachment is irrelevant.
With a front mounted tool, the front of the cross-slide is forced down onto the bed of the lathe with significant force while more modest force pushes the rear of the cross slide down. This is good and how the lathe is designed to take cutting forces
With a rear mounted tool, the topslide is being lifted up at the back of the cross-slide, and the force is shared between the top of the front of the bed and the bottom, of the rear shear. this is not how lathes are designed to work, and many will not have the rear guides set very tight. So why does this work?
I think its more simple and to do with flexibility in the toolpost causing dig-in at the front, and dig-out at the rear. Note how 'upside down' front toolholders see improved performance, even though the forces are lifting the cross slide off it's normal bearing surface!
I suspect that there are two fundamental solutions to parting problems:
1 – a tool mounted so that if it flexes, it tends to leave the work – negative feedback that will act to reduce oscillation (less chatter)
2 – more massive and rigid mounting arrangements that damp vibration (less chatter)
But my main point is that, in many cases, the actual forces on the cross slide are far from optimal and therefore they can't be the main cause of problems ass most of the effective solutions actually make the cross-slide force situation worse!
Neil