Derek,
Sadly you ask the unanswerable question! Correct answer is tight enough to do the job but not tight enough to strip the threads! Which you won't find particularly helpful I think?
In definitive terms I only know 2 ways to tighten a threaded fastener to achieve the correct tension. First is using a torque wrench which isn't going to be helpful in these small sizes as friction will play as big a part as anything else. Second is by measuring the bolt stretch, this is a much more reliable method than torque on the nut to achieve the pre load but again impractical in this size / application. There is a third way of torque and turn which is a combination of the two main methods and a bit more accurate than torque alone where a set torque is applied to seat the fastening and reach a predetermined frictional / low tension condition followed by turning the nut or bolt a calculated number of degrees to bring to full tension, this is worked out on extension required relative to thread pitch, again not really helpful for you.
So all you are left with is feel! Getting used to the amount of pressure you can apply to the spanner or socket being used. If you are not confident you can 'feel' how tight you are doing them up than I suggest you get a piece of copper the same thickness as the barrel and drill and tap the same size as you are using (do several holes). Drill a bit of scrap steel clearance and put a piece of the jointing you are planning to use between and use one of your bolts. Screw it in so it is seated firmly and then place the spanner on it and turn until you strip the copper thread, noting the angle it passes through. Half the angle would be a good guide to the maximum you can tighten the bolt without compromising anything. That is about as scientific as you can get in practical terms if you are not confident with your feel. It's worth noting what Jason said earlier and making sure the male thread is a good fit in the hole, if it's too small and there is too much clearance all the load will be on the thinner crests of the threads and they will strip easier than if a good firm fit.
its worth developing a sense of how tight is tight enough on these small fastenings and odd (non ferrous) materials for elsewhere on the engine. Good luck.
Paul.
Edited By Paul Kemp on 25/08/2019 23:13:14