You can make one. (Far cheaper than "The genuine article" ) The end faces need to be square to the thread, and the thread should be at least 1D, ie, 7/16" long.
If you go for a hexagon nut and a ring spanner, you can apply a lot of torque, and huge clamp loads. Possibly sufficient to strip a thread if you really heave on it With a ring spanner 70 or 80 lb ft torque could be achieved, but not necessarily needed, to apply a huge clamp force. Probably enough to do damage.
The current ball handle that you have should be quite capable of providing sufficient clamping force.
An hour so ago, I was taking a 0.050" facing cut on 1" steel with a four way toolpost set at an angle, to provide clearance, with only the clamping force provided by manually tightening the toolpost handle . (No dowel or stop )
And there is no needle roller bearing between the handle and toolpost, but I do make sure that the handle is tight.
At over 80, my days as a Charles Atlas clone are way behind me!.
Reducing friction between handle and toolpost means that the handle turns more easily, so that, for a given applied torque, it goes slightly further down the thread, and so applies more clamp load.
You don't want to crack (or strip ) a nut, so no sledgehammer required
Howard