Are you looking for a replacement bolt?
If you are, the thread is likely to be Imperial, BSW or BSF rather than metric.
Check that the tapping has not been damaged . (Once I came across a lathe where one tapping had been crossthreaded, and tightening that fixing pulled the Headstock out of alignment. )
Once you have the Headstock capable of being firmly clamped, you need to ensure that it is correctly aligned when in place.
For this, you will need to an Alignment Bar, located in the Morse taper in the mandrel, rather than in a chuck,
Once the Headstock is correctly aligned, holding the Alignment between centres (Having trimmed up the Headstock centre in situ ) the Tailstock can be aligned..
HTH
Howard