James,
Sounds like a jewellers butterfly clutch as used on lapel pins etc. I haven’t seen them in a size that would fit a 6ba stud though, more like 2mm maximum. Ggogle will show you pictures.
There are stamped steel “washers” with 2 or more inward facing teeth, seem to remember them holding the wheels on my grand daughters toy pram at Christmas, haven’t the faintest idea of the proper name for them though, sorry.
Andy