Short explanation – yes the 8.8 and 12.9 numbers are the strength rating. 8.8 is a medium strength screw and 12.9 is a high strength screw.
Low head metric capscrews are often but not always made to DIN 7984 standard. DIN standards are the same worldwide, obviously, but fastener makers do sometimes deviate from them when it suits them, particularly some less virtuous Asian makers, so unless a particular fastener from a reputable distributor is stated as being made to DIN XXXX it may not be.
If I were OP I would stop looking at Ebay for fastener engineering info and instead look at manufacturer's or distributor's datasheets. A handy and free resource is McMaster Carr in the US. You don't have to buy from them but you can look at data on just about any fastener, in detail, on their website. If you click on a part number all specs and a product drawing appear.
Example at link below for low head socket head capscrew.
https://www.mcmaster.com/93070A123/