Richard ,
To lap such a big cylinder properly will require some proper equipment . There is no easy way of doing the job just by working a lap through randomly by hand .
Ideally work would be done properly on a lathe , milling machine boring machine or honing machine but in abscence of these here some suggestions .
(1) Similar to method for Bill above . Make a lap which will just enter the bore at tightest spot and with a working section much longer than your cylinder . Aluminium ideal but probably more practical to use wood . Has to be truly parallel and round .
Clamp the lap somehow and then with fine grinding paste work cylinder along and around lap by hand . Vary amount of turning and length of stroke randomly and also randomly turn cylinder end for end . Takes a while and lap may need to be renovated now and then but will eventually produce a smooth parallel bore .
(2) Use honing stones and make a device to hold the stones in a spider half way along a long round bar which will act as a centering guide . Arrange some sort of bush bearings in two bars clamped to cylinder ends and set long bar to run true in bore . Set stones to be just tight in worst part of bore . Arrange a drive and work honing stones back and forth through bore . Adjust if nescessary . Takes a while to set up but then works rapidly .
Could use Aluminium bar laps instead of stones .
It is also possible to actually bore cylinders this way – most of the large railway workshops had portable cylinder boring machines working on variations of the guide pole principle .
Regards ,
MikeW