Just returning to the heating issue for a moment:
there's a balance to be struck here, I think. My experience has been that small torches (e.g. the Proxxon small 'cook-sized' torch) are very handy for tiny jobs, but will not do for larger jobs or for jobs where more heat is required such as copper pipe. I have a larger propane torch (Sievert, I think; but very old) which has a fine jet or a broad jet. That's a better bet, and can also be used along with the Proxxon. Of course then you need 3 hands… I use that combination for hardening and tempering small jobs.
Then there's the oxy-acetylene… which inevitably just melts small jobs. Wonderful tool, but not for nipples.
I thin it best to have adequate heat, and some in hand, because one factor is the ability to bring the work to temperature quickly. If it takes too long the flux will boil off. Once the flux has gone there's little chance of actually achieving a decent job.
Loctite is wonderful stuff and I use it often, but have not used the high temperature stuff.
Grade 4090 says it is ok to 150 degrees C, but I have not used that product. Others are ok to 100 deg C.
Marcus