Hello again Mike,
My calcs put the maximum stay spacing for 13G plate at 80 psi as 15/16". If you go to 2.5mm plate then 1" spacing is possible. Problem then is the stays need to be quite big so you'd need to go to 1/4" x 40TPI in copper – not an easy prospect in relatively thin copper. Alternatively you could stick with LBSC's 5/8" spacing but I'd recommend increasing the stays to 5/32" x 40TPI. Modern thinking though is that the stays do not need to be threaded as this goes back to the days of riveted and soft solder caulked boilers where the stays needed mechanical fixity in the plates. The strength of silver solder allows the stays to be plain, but for someone with limited experience of boiler construction I would recommend threaded stays silver soldered, so that if the silver soldering is not perfect and the odd stay leaks then it is safe to caulk them with a high temperature soft solder like Comsol.
Do join a club and liaise with their boiler inspectors, For the boiler to be operated legally you need to comply with the construction and test proceedures agreed by the ME organisations such as the Southern Federation and Northern Association and of course the club membership brings with it third party insurance cover.
Best of luck with your boiler.
Eddie