I also struggled to find good sources that directly compared different mills within a similar price or size band. Reviews tend to be of a single machine.
My feeling is that when people invest a lot of money after making a decision it is common (and good for mental health) to reinforce the decision points and adopt cognitive dissonance, and it is rare for people to advertise they made a bad decision. The bad stories are usually about events associated with the individual purchase – "there was rust", "paint flaked off", "the seller was not very nice to me". So individual reviews do not seem to be a perfect source of info.
The 'specification' information that is published by suppliers does not seem to cover stiffness, accuracy, or precision. These are all very important to me. It is a real shame this info isn't available.
It seems like there could be criteria and measurments defined that could be applied to allow comparison… either by biased owners making measurments and publishing on a community website, or by someone like Project Farm investing tens of thousands of pounds (but he will get as many views reviewing tools with a $100 investment).
I think most machines within a size/cost bracket are very similar in many ways. I managed to find a small number of criteria that seemed important to me and showed a difference in the different machines. For me, an important one was speed range, particularly high speed for small cutters. This helps define the decision in your own mind and makes it easy to remind yourself why you bought what you did, and to stop kicking yourself for not buying the other thing. It is also good to remember why you bought WHEN you did… so that when prices are dropped the next week you can try and console yourself.
I have SX 3.5. It comes with power cross feed and power Z. Maybe those motors could be useful in CNC? I don't think it would be easier so I'd suggest if CNC expect to throw them away – in which case, what was the point?
Power feed is flipping amazing. That and DRO are essential now for me.
I move Z a lot (both frequently, and in big increments). Ease of dong this would be an important criterial for me and power Z is great. The SX3 has its Z handle down low, easy to access. Reaching up to top of column for Z seems like it could be a bother.
I don't think it is 'stiff'. As Jason says, small, highspeed cutters on aly would be great. But stiffness does seem to be a limitation. I recently used a very battered/knackerted Beaver (similar to bridgeport), and milling is a completely different experience on that. Stiffness was not a primary limitation!
It is very easy to work on. I've had it in many bits. So I suggest it could be easy to CNC. Adding DRO was simple.
I didn't find anyone else who has CNC'd it at the time. SX3 and WM18 are more common.
I have not needed the very long table and it gets in the way.
I feel that the more recently popular machine for conversion to CNC might be WM18. But I think SX3 used to be more popular. You can buy a kit for the WM18 type: https://www.cnc4you.co.uk/Machines/CNC-Mill.
3.5 does not have a tilting head! I didn't even realise this when I made the decision. Now I realise it, I seem to wish for it all the time. Usually some work holding method negates the need, but there is one project that I'm still working out how to do. You will not want it for CNC! which leads me on to:
Avoid features you don't need. Extra features usually have down sides as well as advantages. But you often get the downsides even if you don't use the feature to get the advantage.