I was not a machinist, but after my Apprenticeship, years in industry exposed me to a lot of machines and machining.,
Milling is a series of interrupted cuts, so the work needs to be rigidly clamped. If it is not, it will move and that may damage the work, probably break the cutter; and you might even finish up wearing it!
A milling machine is more dangerous than a lathe, and either can do you serious injury if you are careless!
FWIW learn how to use a lathe, first of all. When you are reasonably competent, you can start to learn how to use a milling machine.
Take one step at a time.
You seem to be starting from absolute scratch so learn the basics first.
If you can't find a local Model Engineering Club, take up King Olaf's offer..
Certainly get some books and start reading them. You will learn from them, and avoid making mistakes which can be frustrating, mystifying, or downright dangerous. If you can't find a list of possibles, PM me.
Until you have some experience, stick with using the 3 jaw chuck. Setting work accurately central in a 4 jaw is another technique to learn. A 3 jaw will not hold work ABSOLUTELY central.
You learned to walk before running or sprinting.
All experience is good, even if it only warns you not to do that again!
Once you have become fairly proficient with a lathe, some of the principles that you have learned can be applied to a mill.
Don't rush. make your mistakes, (and you will ), on plain mild steel bar not expensive castings or materials.
The South Bend is a fairly elderly machine, so High Speed Steel tools will suit it best.
Carbide has its uses, but when you have a better idea of what you are doing.
For the cost of one carbide tip, you can buy a piece of HSS that will suffice for a lot of grinding to resharpen.
That leads you on to buying a bench grinder, and learning how to grind tools. The ideal clearance for a tool / material may be 10 degrees, but for most purposes, the world is not likely to end if you actually produce 8 or 12 degrees! Start too early and you won't whether you have picked nit or a louse!
One of the first jobs that I would advise is making a Centre Height Gauge. It will be useful for the rest of your time with that lathe, and you will learn a lot by making it. So, WIN WIN.
Take a look at my albums for pictures. The one with two blades is for a lathe with a rear toolpost as well as a front one, but the principle is the same. So just make a single bladed one to start.
Having made and set the gauge accurately, tools can then be set so that the cutting edge of the tool just touches the underside of the blade.
If the tool is not on centre height, it will not cut properly, or possibly not at all. If it is cutting, but off centre, it will leave a pip in the middle of the bar. Adjust the tool height until there is no pip (And you will notice that the tool cuts better, and produces a better finish ).
Once in that position, the Centre Height Gauge can be set to it and not readjusted unless absolutely necessary..
If, eventually, you climb onto one of my hobby horses, and start to use a tangential turning tool (Only one face to grind! ) you will really need a Centre Height Gauge.
Making simple tools provides useful learning and experience to build confidence and produces tools that you can probably use for many years to come.
Apprentices learned by making their own tools, so no reason why you should not follow the same path.
HTH
Howard
Edited By Howard Lewis on 27/06/2022 21:48:05