The function of a gasket is to fill up the irregularities between the two surfaces being joined together. The flatter the surfaces are the better, coarse surfaces need thicker gaskets.
The problem is that the thicker caskets you use the stronger the material used has to be. This is to prevent the gasket from blowing out. In commercially made joints tend to have rather thick gaskets as fine finishes cost money.
Clive in your case I would use paper, a good quality ‘Bank paper’ if your finish is not too good or tracing paper or the old fashioned bog roll (Bronko or the like).
To make them I use a tiny ball-pein ‘tappy’ hammer, a sharp craft knife, a scribe to poke holes. I oil the surface well and stick the paper on it and lightly tap round the shape, hitting the paper down onto the edge of the item with just enough force to cut/thin down the paper. It is a skill/art which is easy to learn.
The thing is that thin paper gaskets, soaked in oil and squeezed firmly into the joint are extremely strong, cheap and easy to make. Once assembled they are not taken apart again for many years so the little effort to make them is well worth it
Rdgs
Dick