Hi Bri ,
This is an endless subject but here's a few thoughts to begin with :
(1) Far better not to have a gasket at all where possible . Follow common full size practice and bed cylinder to mounting face accurately by blueing and scraping and then (apart from some sealant ) bolt down metal on metal .
(2) If using a gasket this should be made to the full footprint of the mating surfaces – just like an old type car cylinder head gasket .
Gaskets only work properly if the mating surfaces are quite accurate – although its often done gaskets should never be used to compensate for poorly finished mating surfaces .
Clearance holes for bolts or studs should give adequate clearance be and well finished – stray burrs and bits of broken off gasket can cause all sorts of difficulties .
(3) Best material for a gasket is freshly annealed copper sheet . Personally I would never use soft gasket material for such an important pressure holding and structural joint as the cylinder to boiler one .
(4) When fitting gaskets properly it is always best to do a bedding down test . Easiest way is to make a cardboard gasket replica , bolt it down hard and then remove and examine . Imprint should be nice and even everywhere with no gaps or scrapes . Any flaws can be traced back to some defect in the mating surfaces and corrected .
(5) When bolting down finally use a stress balancing procedure . This is again like bolting down a car cylinder head . Tighten one up then one approximately diagonally opposite , then rotate one position and repeat etc going round several times until all are tight and all the same to feel . Ideally use an aerospace torque wrench and decide beforehand a set figure for your torque .
(6) After natural settling down and initial steamings the bolts will need rechecking and probably further tightening . Full size practice in olden times was to do final torque down in steam but I would positively not recommend that practice now on safety grounds .
There's several more volumes of this – ask any questions you like .
Regards ,
Michael Williams .