Interesting. I always thought lapping ali and stuff like that was a bit of a no no, (depending on later use of course)
The soft metal, while it can pick up a good finish also loads with abrasive and becomes a lap in itsself. Doesn’t apply to the harder metals of course, like iron or steel.
So the theory goes.
Anyway, one thing is for sure – if you want to make a good lap, just take a bit of ali, brass or the like, roll it in abrasive powder, pressing a little firmly of course, and away you go.
So, for instance doing the portfaces for a model, I don’t mind lapping the iron face, but the bronze valve – that is left to wear in from a highly finish machined surface. Thats a sliding surface so therein may lie the a difference.