The majority of online calculators are based on commercial size machines with more power and rigidity so can only be taken as a guide for the benchtop hobby machines. Little Machine Shop is about the only one specifically for hobby machines.
The Milling for beginners series that I did in MEW and is what my book is based on ended before I got to go into this subject but I’m going to write something up based on what suits the hobby machines which is generally running on the fast side of cutting speed, less DOC and a chip loading that won’t stall or flex the machine yet is still enough to stop rubbing. Will likely be in MEW and I will probably add it to the “workshop” section of the site. This will cover shell/facemills as well as solid milling cutters.
As for getting the job done in a certain time it is really no slower to take several shallow cuts at high feed than it is to make one slower deep cut