Recommended starting point as Martin Evans is as follows:
Blast nozzle 1/7th of cylinder diameter. Evans is silent on the size of the choke, but in full size practice it was around three times the size of the nozzle. In models the nozzle is usually much smaller than scale and the nozzle/choke ratio ends up around 5.
A 'V' of ratio 1 to 6 placed in the blast nozzle should intersect the chimney just below the top. If it is too high then the nozzle needs to be lowered.
A 'V' of ratio 1 to 3 should intersect the petticoat near the bottom. If it misses then the chimney liner is too short.
It is essential for the nozzle and chimey to be concentric
It's easier to draw than to explain in words.
If the locomotive steams freely it is possible to increase the size of the nozzle until it makes just enough steam when running to maintain pressure when linked up. If the steaming is poor then reducing the nozzle size might improve matters but the cause is more likely to be associated with air or steam leakage into the smokebox or inadequate air supply to the grate.
There are many theories on blast pipe/chimney design, and many famous locomotive engineers, not least Chapelon, Kylala, Le Maitre, and Ell all had lots to say on the subject, but if you follow the above you will get a result.
Hope it works out well
Eddie