Thanks for all the interesting replies guys.
I'm 75 now, thankfully quite fit and healthy (well apart from Coeliac, Crohns, TIA, high BP, high Cholesterol)
My wife and I very often say, when discussing why all our plans of yesterday for today came to nothing, how on earth did we go out to work full time, bring up two kids with all the attendant school trips, parent evenings, parties, McDonalds, football, cricket, plus shopping, decorating, mow the lawn, washing, ironing etc etc.
No- we have got something wrong somewhere, or is it something right!
Bill D