Hi Paul, with the flank feed (off set top slide) method, if you set the top slide to exactly half the thread angle all you need to do is align the leading edge of the tool with your thread gauge, the trailing flank is taken care of by the in-feed. It would help a little if you grind the tool slightly under thread angle to give some small amount of clearance. It also helps to not take very deep cuts to reduce any "steps" in the trailing flank. A final pass or two straight in only really works with a form tool type tool.
Hi Vic, how about getting a cross slide stop, it would help with your understandable aversion. I have an Eccentric style tangential type threading tool on a swing up tool, amongst many others including a copy of the Victorian original, which again works well. I seem to recall demo-ing it on the SMEE stand at Ally-Pally a few years ago, some of you might remember as it seemed to draw quite a crowd.
chriStephens