usually drilled right through, use a thread sealant on assembly. assume you have the thickening pad inside the boiler.
Quite a lot of people solder nuts onto lengths of studding to make "bolts" that look like nuts and studs but easier to undo if the need arises.
Bronze studs would be best
If you can do the drilling on a mill then lock the quill and lower the head or raise the table as this tends to resist any pull from the bit. Others stone the cutting edges to reduce the rake or you can buy slow helix drills for grabby materials