David;
I'm currently finishing a boiler for a 3-1/2" gauge 2-6-0 (Ivatt from Martin Evans), and will be working on a 7-1/4" one later this summer.
Some in our club use higher point melting point silver solder for bushes, etc. The 2-6-0 boiler will be my 4th boiler; the first one (Tich #1) was a learning experience; Tich #2 was much better.
I'm using "easyflo-45" which I don't think you can get in England any more. I have no idea how much I'm going to use, because it was purchased about 10 years ago. It's all I use for fittings, boilers, and fabrications. If you purchase too little, get more! if you purchase too much, you'll use it on making fittings, etc. I find I'm using more than I thought I would.
I like the Kozo Hiraoka approach of just putting on enough silver solder to do the joint, but I do in fact have to keep a flux jar, a pointed "scraper", and a bit of silver solder for dabbing when required.
I have a Sievert torch, but also now have a "Turbo Torch" with the A-32 tip; different torches; the Sievert one is a soft flame, the TurboTorch is more "put the heat here".
As I use copper rivets for boiler firebox stays where possible, and no soft solder "caulking" like used to be used in LBSC days, the turbo torch is good in that it does not go out as readily sticking it into a boiler firebox. It draws air in around the handle, while the Sievert draws air in around the burner head.
If you can get a copy of Alec Farmers' boiler building book, it is worth it. I borrowed a copy years ago, and I don't know if it is still available.
Boiler building is fun; wish I could do more of it to keep my skills up.
Hope this rambling message helps;
Another JohnS