Ady, that is all very well if you knew in advance how things were going to turn out. But practically, the people in command usually don't have enough information to make that sort of decision. The guys on the bridge of the Titanic would not have known if they were aimed directly at the iceberg, or if not, which side they were aimed at. By the time they knew it would have been too late.
There is a piece in the NZ Herald this morning about the sinking of the Wahine 50 years ago. **LINK** It seems that if they had known, they would have been safer to run into the buoy that they saw. But when you don't know exactly where you are, or how close the buoy is to the reef, how do you make that choice?
To get back to aircraft, I think a similar thing applies to the Concorde accident. If the pilots had known what was to come, they would have been better to shut down and put the brakes on. Ok, they were going to fast to stop in the available runway, and would have overrun the end, but it would probably have been better to have their crash there, with some possibility of survival than to struggle into the air and crash into the hotel. But of course there is no way that they could know that. All you can do in those split seconds is what training and experience has shown will usually give the best outcome. Sometimes you will be wrong.
John