Owse about …
Rod of suitable diameter (& length!) silver-soldered to a square socket. Square socket fits over your ‘lever seating’ in order to provide rotational drive. Then pin with 1.5mm or 1/16″ (stainless) pin through square sections.
Pin only needed to prevent lateral movement so can actually be slim as you like. Could use taper-pin if you prefer.
An alternative approach:
You are going to need a (sealed) tube to allow the operating rod to pass through the smokebox. If you don’t like a pin through the valve driving square then a collar (with grub-screw? or maybe pin??) positioned to run against the through-tube will hold the square against the driving square on your valve.
Phil