Good news!
My CNC failed to snap my last 2mm endmill last night 
The Job started:

and then it progressed some

As it was all looking good I even went and sat in the garden with a beer, keeping an ear out for the noise.
I was back to watch the pocketing process, as the rest of the cuts were small width, and this was the full width, after all the other milling.

took just under 2h20.

End result of the roughing pass:

Somethings gone wrong here, the pocket is supposed to be a curve:

Turns out the recycled bearing on the X Axis has collapsed/ jammed.

Must have happened pretty much at the end, as the other shapes look OK.
That's why I took the stock off – cant run the finish on it until the leadscrew is sorted, which means stripping the table out…
Still, massive progress, and the new spindle seems to have made a difference.
I think its now in the 'tune' stage, rather than the throw things at it stage 
Thankyou all
Dave