A place I worked at a while back had a consumer product with an unrated contactor which was fine for a real 80 amps RMS continuous.
We never had to use it to switch the load because we used a transformer to generate the 80 amps from a 240 volt supply. The supply was not high power and it was controlled by standard 240V switchgear. If the unrated contactor had been used to switch the power directly I'm sure it would have died quite quickly.
I'm sure the high current contactor was as bulky as any knife switch I've seen. The use of such is no bad call. The thing you are going to be interested in is keeping the contacts clean. You ideally want a wiping action, perhaps silver or gold plate.
For a modern product, I would have to say that a Solid State Relay is the best way forward, but I don't think you'll get what you want off the shelf. I am equally certain that technology is up to the task, it's just that no-one much wants it, so it's hard to come by. If you were developing a product it would be worth developing a supplier for such a thing, because it would be more reliable than any mechanical solution.
I think the unrated contactor was a non-standard Crydom product. It was Bakelite/Phenolic with an open frame about the size of a playing card, perhaps an inch and a half thick.
Edited By Andy Ash on 18/12/2016 14:26:53