I’m fully aware you can buy silicon carbide grit in small quantities. Not within 10 minutes of needing some, though. New paper of course – there would be little point in using anything else.
Valve lapping paste (even fine) is often too coarse and I already have that for engine rebuilds.
All I can say that burning wet and dry it worked perfectly for me. Sure, it’s contaminated with ash, but I tried it up to 1200 grit and it gives the result I’d expect. I have a couple of microscopes but don’t have commercial grit to compare.