Dave, Robert:
The relays are identical, and both have two contacts for the solenoid, and three for the contacts.
The headlamps are switched on separately (as a pair, but not the same switch as the dip) using the original Side-tail, and Head, switch. Within reach in the dip-switch box is a fused live feed and a non-fused ignition-on feed. A futher main switch disconnects everything overnight.
The dip control lever has three positions, much like a 1960-1990 car, with, in order towards you, mainbeam, dip, and flash. Main, or dip, stays where you put it, while flash is spring loaded to OFF.
Each of the microswitches is operated by the control lever, at each end of the lever movement, and both have on-A & on-B positions.
It is not a simple matter to change to a foot dip switch, as it is complicated enough driving with a central throttle pedal, (and a right side gear stick on a RH Drive car).
And incidentally, the headlamps and side, tail, etc are all LEDs, because the max output from the dynamo is 8 amps (and only then when pressing on). The reason I don't want Dip to stay on when I use the Flash is that the Headlamps are old fashioned, each in their own small space, and the bulbs in each are cooled with an integral fan. As the volume is small I hope to avoid overheating in there if both 'filaments' are on (but perhaps I am fussing over nowt).
Hoping this helps your cogitating.
PS I would send you a circuit diagram but (of course) I haven't worked out what it looks like yet.(!)
Regards, Tim