In response to some of the further points:
I think my father may have intended to etch some glassware, but there is no evidence that he actually did so. My mother will only become aware that she owns a bottle of hydrofluoric when my sister presents the winning bid to her for payment.
It probably does come from a couple of decades back, when these things were indeed treated with more abandon.
I tried the wastecare online form a couple of days ago, without result, but with the recommendation (thank you) I have now phoned them, and they sounded the most organised so far, but until the quote comes in a couple of days I cannot know what the real outcome will be. Unfortunately collection of HF from domestic premises is a rather rare requirement, so I have not yet found anyone who can just read off a standard price list.
It is probably in transport packaging, but I do not wish to transport it.
Stonemason's apparently use it, which may be more widespread than some of the other industries, but the stuff sells at about GBP 20 / litre, so it is not going to be worth anyone going more than a mile to fetch.
Strange to say, my wife told me yesterday that her first job, back in the 70s, was research into using HF as a way of making through holes in multi-layer PCBs. I must ask her if they kept calcium gel to hand. However, she is not suffering from a nostalgic wish to meet HF again, and will probably stay south of Gloucester until it has been dealt with.
John