Hi JG ,
I'm afraid that you'll need substantial technical education to do this properly .
The shape and size of the contact zone between worm and gear is determined by the specific geometry of both parts and on the loading .
The common load line between both is at a compound angle determined by the specific geometry of both parts .
I suggest that you study :
Gear theory .
Contact stress theory and high load contact zone surface deformations . A lot of this is covered in ball bearing theory .
Auxilliary plane projection in traditional drawing and then in CAD .
This is really too complex a subject for this site and whilst I'd be happy to answer a few questions I don't think that me giving a long detailed general explanation on here would be appropriate .
I wish you every sucess in any case ,
Michael Williams .