i assume 46 is a fair bit thicker than the iso 32?
Yes, 46 is noticably thicker than 32.
The Gildemeister lathes at work use 46 hydraulic oil for spindle gearbox lubrication & the difference in thickness can be seen over 32 (kept for hydraulic top-ups) when decanting from barrel to jug.
Hopefully changing to the correct grade will sort your problems.
Nigel B.