That line is in Bedfordshire William and it is normally very popular with G3S members because it has twin running circuits for live steamers and a branch line for the R/C engines to operate on. There are other G3 railways around the country but this one is quite central, so gets people from London, the Midlands and South East. It's also a G3S boiler test site at the beginning of the running season – so I guess those are the reasons it tends to get photographed a lot.
The best way to settle your mind normally, would be to go and look at the different options and try to narrow down what you want out of your hobby. We often have guests who are invited to GTGs and are free to chat to members about their engines and have a drive. Not possible at the moment I'm afraid.
Putting aside the engine choice for a moment – there is another aspect you might want to think about.
Both G1 & G3 hold their GTGs in private gardens which are hosted by the owners. Many Hosts run informal events for local members, as well as the 'official' ones for the wider membership. Hosts generally fund and maintain their own railways, although local members often volunteer to help them out. Membership fees are generally in the order of £20pa or so – because it mainly just has to cover the Newsletter/Journal.
Model Engineering Societies (MES) are located in a specific location and their members are normally fairly local to that place (City/Town/County). They need to have a reasonable plot of land for the track and usually also some kind of club house and storage. Members are expected to help maintain the track, buildings and scenery. The costs of running a site can be considerable, which is either met by the membership or fund-raising – often both.
The N25GA holds 'Rallies' at Host MES (with 2.5" tracks) so is kind of a halfway house – a GTG at a MES if you will.
Membership of a local MES will usually provide access to great facilities and support (assuming that you are reasonably close) but it does come with an expectation that members will also 'contribute' their time and effort back when and as required.
G! and G3 are 'National' in nature and membership doesn't come with quite the same level of overhead but the downside is that you will probably not have free access to track whenever you want or need it (unless you get to know a local Host very well)
If you build in 3.5" or 5" you are essentially going to have to join a MES to run your engine. If you build in G1 you will have garden railways you can visit – and hopefully a local Host who welcomes informal running. In 2.5" you can run at G3 GTG or N25GA Rallies and/or also join a local MES if they have a 2.5" track (But they will tell you you should have built bigger) 
In any Society, Association or Club, there are always those who do much of the work and those who (for whatever reason ) are less willing to give their time. This might show as problems getting people to volunteer for the Committee or the fact that it's always the same 'willing horses' that turn up to cut the grass or maintain the track at the MES.
I can't really tell you what loco will give you the most satisfaction (or enjoyment) to build and run – but I can tell you that I think being a member of a MES will probably demand more commitment from you. For many this is a bargain they are delighted to accept (and they are duly rewarded) but not everyone understands this side of the deal in my experience.
Regards,
IanT
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