Jason U – I smiled and then thought good point, most of my 'stock' is round bar!
Michael – I am going to have a go at making a 'split' vice as in Howard Hall's book so I can mount work directly on the table, and hold off on the commercial vice – they are expensive (looked at a Vertex VA4 but think it might be too big for the table?) Already got a flycutter on a straight shank but may eventually get one with a taper. Got cutting fluid (use it on lathe and bench drill) Got parallels but good point about packing – might also make some of my own clamps/fences (good practise)
Good source for quality cutters? With no experience it's hard to judge good or bad…most of the stuff I get from Tracy Tools seems OK?
Jason B – Already got a dial indicator, DTI and an edge finder but not centre finder (yet) Bought a mount to fit the DTI to the quill (looks like an Indicol?)
Geoff – comes with a drill chuck fortunately (one less thing to buy)
George – got an ER32 set from ArcEuroTrade with chuck and 6 collets in case – 6, 8, 10, 12, 16 and 20mm? Rotating tailstock center??? I have one for the lathe but it's MT2, what would I use this for on a mill? Oh, and the mill is a Sieg SX3
Thanks for all the suggestions, if you don't ask you never learn 
One other thing is the issue about clouting the drawbar to get the (MT3) taper out – been trying to visualise the various posts about self extracting drawbar modications
I went for MT3 in the end so I could use the tooling on the lathe
Cheers
Chris