With HSS I reckon on a max depth of cut of around the diameter of the cutter. Can't see why carbide should be any different really but have never used slot mills of that type.
Speed can be similar to what would be used in a lathe with the same type of tool and material being cut except its the tool that is rotating. Generally I run slower than suggested figures as I like my tool to stay sharp.
Feed in my case is by hand so I haven't a clue what it is in mm / min. I generally adjust that to get a decent finish and by looking at how it cuts. If a cutter is taking what for it is a deep cut it will bend somewhat on smaller sizes. Too much of that will spoil the finish. Much of that sort of thing depends on just how powerful a miller is.
John
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