Well there is no doubt you can get them completely steam tight.
Easy way – write to Polly models and use viton balls, which are fine so long as they cannot rise far enough to block an outlet (dead ends the pump,. and bends conrods ! But they are effective, and seem to last. (also make very good injector steam stop valves with a flat ended doohickey on the handwheel instead of a cone, and less hassle than an O ring.)
Ohter way, with stainless balls. Use a D bit (Tracy tools if you are lazy or make one) to get a niice flat bottomed hole – never had a lot of luck with a slot drill or endmill, but thats me. Centre drill and drill the hole, and I always ream to get a good sharp edge. Take a spare SS ball of the right size, and seat in hole, and then with a brass drift and small hammer, give it one good smart twat to give a seating. (Brass drift in bronze/gunmetal and you don't need to chuck that ball away, but that is the normal advice, which I don't follow).
Some burnish the seat, using a ball superglued into a carrier and then use Brasso/toothpaste and an electric drill. If you are nice and square with the drift and firm with the light hammer, you shouldn't have to. (A guide for the drift can be useful and I have made them for the standard sizes so I do use one) Squeeze the ball into place is another option.
Has this lot been running – not possibly scaled up is it? Or is it new?
Set pump type NRVs for about .030 lift max, injector clacks for quite a lot.( .1 of an inch I use) since oscillation and bounce is not a problem.
Hope it works out.