Posted by Ramon Wilson on 21/05/2011 12:59:42:
I’m glad I’m not alone guy’s. Now, perhaps it’s time for a clean up
Not necessarily…. I have the problem you’ve described too. The one thing I’ve found that makes it worse though, is clearing up. I stand a much better chance of finding something in the place that I put it than I do if I put it somewhere and subsequently moved it during a clearing operation. I think that this is probably because then, I’ve moved it twice – so at a bare minimum I have twice as much to remember. I’ve probably put something down in a logical place without thinking twice about it, but if I clear up, the chances are that it isn’t in one any more, so I’m stuffed – at least temporarily.
One of the statements that irritates me most about this is the one that goes ‘A place for everything, and everything in it’s place’. For the life of me, I can’t do that. For a start, there are far too many ‘things’, and secondly, how much time and space is it going to take to organise it properly? Time when I could have been doing something constructive – or even destructive!
But hey, different peoples’ brains work in different ways. I get the impression that most people who have the untidiness gene are also what might be described as ‘generative thinkers’ – rather than working it all out in advance, they tend to go with the flow rather more – which implies rather more concentration on the task in hand, I think. You do experiments, you try different approaches to what you are making/doing, etc, but the last thing you are thinking about is the ‘messy’ fallout. I suppose that the ultimate opposite of this approach is that you’ve planned everything so meticulously in advance that you’ve even planned the replacing of tools, etc into your building process!
If you like, these are two extremes of a continuum. You just have to work out where you are along it, and try to find your own way to cope with this – if you can…