I have converted a couple of mills to CNC.
Nema 34 is probably the size to use, but you need a high torque motor as they have to hold the work as well as move it.
I would get ball screws and fit them.
I would drive the 3 axis indirectly, with a timing belt on pulleys between the motors and the lead screws.
My first conversion had a top speed of about 1500 rpm, and to be honest this was perfectly ok with hss tools.
To operate I recommend Mach3 or mach4.
For the saddle I suggest you rig up a counter balance to take the weight off. A spring or weight over a pulley would do the trick. Maybe even an old car spring?
Good luck. It looks a useful mill.
John