Living in the sticks and not driving ??????? You,re not exactly on a winner, are you ?
Scrap dealers are a lucky dip, at the best of times only to be used as a last resort.
You dont say where you live, but there are good suppliers in Dublin and Cork and a few other places [do a check ]
When you work out what you need, pay a friend to make a trip to get proper stuff, not junk. Two or three trips a year should be enough. I make one trip to Dublin per year for any serious supplies, lesser stuff I find locally.
Postage can be way off [steel is not lightweight ] and I find that most of these suppliers love cash money, without the hassle of paperwork.
For what it,s worth, There is a supplier in Dublin called "Special Steel" who keep a vast range of steels, and will cut to order or sell short lengths of whatever you want.
There are also suppliers of Brass and Ali in the same area [one trip covers all ]
There is also a good supplier of brass and ali in Cork, so I think a trip might be well worth your while, since this stuff is not going to come to you. {Dont ask how I know ! ]
Three phase got lost about 20 miles away from me, but that,s another story.
Happy hunting, my friend !